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A brotherhood for men who are done hiding

Stop Asking Her
to Trust You.
Become Trustworthy.

For men ready to become the man their word can stand on.

Led by licensed therapists · Enrollment is currently closed

In their words
“They stretched me and built a group of men that I would be willing to go to battle with!”
Landon
2022 Bear Lake Attendee
The truth

Your apologies stopped working a long time ago.

You have said sorry more times than you can count. You made promises late at night that were gone by morning. She does not believe your words anymore. And if you are honest, deep down, neither do you.

The problem was never that you did not mean it. Meaning it was never enough. Trust does not come back from better apologies. It comes back when you become a man who has nothing to hide and a man with integrity.

Who this is for

If you see yourself here, you are in the right place.

You love her, and you have hurt her in ways you cannot take back.

You are tired of living two lives, and the gap keeps growing.

You have tried to stop on your own many times. Willpower alone always ends the same way.

You have quit before, and you still feel empty inside.

Your phone, your browser, and your private hours have become places you hide.

You have carried this alone for years, and no one in your life truly knows you.

You have confessed before, but the relief never lasted past the next urge.

You do not want to be managed or shamed. You want to be a man whose word means something.

Testimonials

A room of capable men
who decided to stop carrying it all alone.

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AArt2021 Bear Lake Attendee

I've been around the block with therapy for years. This single weekend was more valuable than all the therapy I've done in the past.

EEd2024 Bear Lake Attendee

Life changing.

DDave2017 Bear Lake Attendee

It allowed me to dig into what is truly meaningful to me in my life.

CConnor2024 Bear Lake Attendee

The retreat has changed me in a lot of different ways. One of those things is trying to give up fear. Living in fear is an everyday struggle with me and being in a hyperstate of anxiety, always scared of everything. I had to step into the fears instead of run from it. The experience here is unlike anything you'll ever experience. It's true connection, it's brotherhood, it's men struggling to overcome all the faulty core beliefs that have kept us stuck our whole life.

BBenny2018 Alaska

I liked the sense of connection and that we got right down to being vulnerable and getting to the heart of the matter. I liked being paired with a variety of people to get to know more people. I enjoyed the physical activities to help me learn with more hands on things.

RRonaldo2021 Bear Lake Attendee

This experience has helped me see myself in a different light. It's something that I've never really seen myself as, and that is that I am more worthy than I ever thought. I've learned that my imperfections don't define me, and don't make me unloveable. I realized that I can be vulnerable with my friends, brothers, family, and those around me.

The reframe

You are not too far gone.
But quick fixes will not work.

It was never really about the sex, or the drugs, or the alcohol. That was just the painkiller. It made a hard inner life feel okay for twenty minutes at a time. The real wound is older. It is the hiding, the way you look down on yourself, and the man you slowly stopped being.

So we are not here to help you force a habit to stop. We are here to help you become whole. A man who tells the truth because he has nothing left to hide. That work is slower. It is also the only kind that lasts.

Silhouettes of men gathered along a ridge at sunrise during a Rising Son retreat
The Method

Six Steps from Lying to Honesty.

There is no shortcut. You go in order, with therapists guiding you, and the same men beside you the whole way. This is group work, not one-on-one or couples counseling. You live it alongside other men, in a program focused on one thing: becoming a man who can rebuild trust after betrayal.

Men hiking single file across open high desert at dusk during a Rising Son retreat
Stage 01

Stop Hiding

Say it out loud to men who will not judge you.

Stage 02

Tell the Truth

Understand rigorous honesty and how to practice it.

Stage 03

Face the Wound

Work with a therapist to get to the roots of the issues.

Stage 04

Build the Structure

Set up routines and support that hold when willpower does not.

Stage 05

Repair the Damage

Do the work to become safe and trustworthy again.

Stage 06

Live Wholehearted

Lead your marriage and your life with nothing left to hide.

Every step is led by a therapist and a group of men walking the path with you. Never alone.

The track record
Hosting retreats since
2016
Retreats hosted
15
Men who have attended
200+
Podcast episodes
540+
The Brotherhood

Brotherhood of men committed to integrity.

Therapists leading the groups, a clear plan, and men who keep showing up.

Weekly groups

Small video calls with the same group every week. You speak, and the group holds the line.

Structured curriculum

A guided plan, not a feed of tips. Each part builds on the last.

Brotherhood accountability

Daily check ins and a sponsor who knows your patterns and will not let you quietly disappear.

Live teaching

Therapists and guests teach live each month, with time for the questions you have never asked anyone.

Guided disclosure and repair

Do disclosure the right way, with guidance. Then start the slow repair work with your wife.

In person retreats

Twice a year we go off the grid. Deep work, no phones, and the reset that changes everything.

A group of men on a rocky hillside with their arms raised at a Rising Son retreat

A safe, confidential group of men committed to honesty and integrity.

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The difference

This, not that.

What it is not

Behavior management

It is not a group focused on behavior management.

Shame

It is not a group that reinforces shame.

Empty promises

We are not teaching you to make empty promises to her.

What it is

Ownership

You name it, you own it, and you stop hiding from it.

Brotherhood

Men who have been right where you are, holding the line with you.

Repair

Slow, real, trustworthy change she can finally see.

The team

Your Rising Son team

The licensed therapists who lead the work, and the man who makes the experience happen.

Tyler Patrick

Tyler Patrick

Clinical Director, LMFT

A licensed therapist and a mountain man at heart. He helps men learn to live with honesty and purpose.

Brannon Patrick

Brannon Patrick

Clinical Director, LCSW

A licensed therapist, a dreamer, and a motivator. He gets men to commit to the work and follow through.

Chase “Sonny” Jones, Experience Director at Rising Son

Chase “Sonny” Jones

Experience Director

The one who keeps it all organized. A creative who builds meaning into every moment of the retreat.

Brannon and Tyler Patrick, the licensed therapists behind Rising Son and hosts of the Therapy Brothers podcast
The podcast

You can start by listening.

Brannon and Tyler are the licensed therapists behind Rising Son. Across more than 540 episodes of their podcast, the Therapy Brothers, they have honest conversations most men only have in their own heads: trust, integrity, marriage, and the cost of hiding. 4.8 stars from 82 reviews. No one has to know you are listening yet. It is a quiet place to start.

Common Questions

Frequently Asked Questions

Honest answers to the questions most men ask before they reach out. Take your time, read what matters to you, and know that nothing here is a commitment.

Still not seeing your answer? Reach out through the contact page and we will get back to you.

We open enrollment in small groups, and the next opening is only a few weeks out. Getting on the list puts you first in line, so you hear the moment the doors open, before anyone else. No cost, no commitment.

The next group opens in the coming weeks. The waitlist is how you make sure you do not miss it.

Rising Son is a therapist-led brotherhood for men who are done hiding and ready to rebuild. It combines weekly groups led by licensed clinicians, a structured curriculum, a private community of men on the same path, and in-person retreats. The aim is simple. Stop managing the behavior and become someone genuinely worth trusting.

Men, usually between 35 and 55, who want to break free from pornography, infidelity, secrecy, or compulsive sexual behavior and rebuild their integrity for real. Some arrive after being caught. Others step forward on their own. Either way, if you are ready to do the work, you belong here.

This is not a quick fix or a course you rush through. You do the work, guided every step and never alone, and the change shows up while you are doing it. The men who lean in are the ones who feel it first.

The program was created by Brannon and Tyler Patrick, licensed clinicians known as the Therapy Brothers, and the weekly groups are facilitated by licensed therapists. Rising Son is a structured group program and brotherhood, not a replacement for individual therapy. Many men run it alongside their own treatment, and the two support each other well.

Yes. The brotherhood runs on trust and discretion. What is shared in the group stays in the group, and your participation is kept confidential.

Very. Many men first hear about Rising Son because a partner went looking for answers. That is nothing to be ashamed of. The work is yours to do, and the men who lean in are the ones who rebuild the most.

We will not promise you what another person will decide. What we can promise is a clear, proven path to becoming someone who is actually trustworthy, day after day. Trust follows changed behavior, and that is the work we do here.

We share full pricing on your discovery call, once we understand your situation and whether the program is a fit. The first step is simple. Book a discovery call, ask us anything, and decide for yourself before you commit to anything.

The decision

One year from now, your word means something. Or it does not.

We take small groups on purpose, and enrollment is closed right now. Join the waitlist and you will be the first to know when the next group opens.